Having practised Human Design since 2010, I finally got certified through Karen's School in August 2022 so I could use this amazing tool to help others!
I love the life-affirming language of Quantum Human Design and I LOVE a good chart chat. My 7 open centers will prove to be a blessing to you, I hope!
During the pandemic, I found myself spending 24 hours a day with my kiddos and my husband. A gift, right? Sure! But, as most of you remember, it was very difficult. Despite being a SAHM (stay-at-home mom) before the pandemic, I had never spent THAT much time, undistracted, with my three boys before. Much less my husband.
Then, my adult daughter and her partner moved in with us and brought a dog. Seven people living inside 1000 square feet. It was a 2-year lesson in patience and tolerance, and…Sharing.
About 6 months into the experience, my mother, of blessed memory, was diagnosed with Pancratic Cancer and passed away 76 days later. I was devastated and traumatized. I would sit in my bathrobe after everyone went to bed and my body would just shake and I would cry in the silence.
Before 2020, I was one of those parents who believed that my kids only REALLY listened when I would raise my voice. But, by the end of October 2020, I no longer could stand the sound of my voice at those decibels. Boiling in my own grief and fragility, it would literally hurt my heart, and trigger more PTSD inside me to yell. I had to stop.
But, as most habits go, I couldn’t figure out how. I was determined. I prayed. And prayed, and prayed some more. I asked my mentor for help. I asked my husband for help. I asked my adult daughter for help.
One night in the Spring of 2021, I was sitting in my bathrobe having my quiet time, crying, and hugging myself so I could hopefully calm down and sleep, and I happened to open Facebook, and I happened to read someone in a group I am in asking, “What personality test do you like more? MTBI, Colors, Human Design?”
And this wave of inspiration breathed hope inside me. “Human Design,” I thought, “that is that weird thing Sara used to teach.”
You see, 10 years ago, when my daughter was still a teenager, I hired Sara to do some coaching with me and my daughter using Human Design, because we were having some SERIOUS communication issues.
I learned, at the time, that I was a Projector and that she was Emotionally Defined, and that I wasn’t…and that I was amplifying her big feelings back to her, and she and I would just get louder and louder until we were both crying.
We grew a LOT during those sessions. Oh, yeah, and I learned that I had to WAIT for an invitation to give my advice to people. (I was NOT happy about that one!)
So, fast forward back to 2021, I pulled my chart, and the charts of all my children again. I was floored. Slowly, over the next few months, I started changing my behavior to be more aligned with who I was created to be, and who my family members were created to be.
And guess what?
As my energetic needs started being met, I found less and less of a need to yell. And as my children started getting their energetic needs yet, I found less of a need to yell. And G-d was able to HEAL the brokenness between my daughter and me from all those years of yelling before she moved out again, and now we are as close as ever.
So, I got certified to do Human Design, penciled out my proprietary process (called the Be-YOU-tiful Coaching Journey), and made myself available to other moms who love their children, but are confounded, sometimes, about how to do it differently (whatever IT is).
My goals as your guide
Initially, my Goal as your Guide is to imagine walking a mile in your shoes. I don't think I can adequately help until I have heard your life story and see the world from your perspective.
After getting to know each other, we will set some realistic, yet challenging goals, and develop a plan based on your You-nique Design and YOUR Values. Success is a 7-letter word that is defined by YOU, not others.
I would never impose my definition of success on you. Then we will set up ongoing 15 min focus sessions to support you and empower you as you implement your plans for success.
I have a plethora of experience and other tools we can use if you get stuck. But my goal is empowering you to have the life you imagine for yourself, with the help of G-d.
I conduct all my meetings over Zoom! Feel free to send me an email if you have any questions when booking! Sashya.email@example.com
I look forward to meeting you!