Crafting Your Own Parenting Plan


Hello Cosmic Revolutionary,

People often tell me that I’m a good mother and that my children are lucky to have me. While I’m pretty proud of the mother I am these days, I want to share with you that it wasn’t always so easy for me.

I come from a family with a long history of trauma.

My mother dearly wanted a family of her own and worked very hard to rewrite some of her ancestral programming rooted in distress and grief so that she could be a better mother than her own mother.

I know that she did the absolute best that she could with the tools that she had. I am grateful for the work that my mother did to help me move our family lineage forward even more.

When I became a mother, I still had a lot of old family history to untangle and rewrite.

I was a reactive parent when my children were little. Maybe it was the stress in my first marriage. Maybe it was always being tired with four little children, all 22 months apart. Maybe it was financial pressure. Maybe it was the grief of losing my own identity and career while I stayed home and became “mother’ without a whole lot of social support.

Maybe it was all of this and more…

The first time I snapped, I was terrified. I immediately started taking parenting classes so that I could learn better ways to manage my stress and exhaustion and be a better mother.

One of the very first things I learned was to create a parenting “plan”, an intentional inventory of my core family values and the values I wanted my children to embody and learn as they grew.

Having a plan helped me check myself when things got stressful. It helped me remember what I wanted to teach my children and how to best support their learning and growth.

It also helped me stay connected to my core self, even when I was losing my mind with a house full of creative individuals.

I’ve been thinking a lot about parenting and Human Design.

Next week I’ll be releasing a brand new Parenting by Design e-book – my gift to those of you who are actively raising children, grandparents and anyone who works with children and families. I’m excited to share it with you.

In the meantime, I thought I’d give you a sneak peek and share with you a simple way to start crafting your own parenting “plan”. You can download this exercise HERE.

If you’d like to discuss this exercise and join our special Facebook community where I’m sharing all kinds of information about Human Design, parenting, and other exclusive content, you can join HERE.

Peace begins at home. Here’s to the future of the world.

From my Heart to Yours,


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Jamila Jamie joined the team in 2020 and is now the Director of the Quantum Alignment System™, which is the advanced integrated Professional Training created by Karen Curry Parker that blends the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Quantum Human Design™, subtle body therapies (quantum essential oils & quantum flower essences) and traditional coaching. She is the point of contact from the moment you sign up for QAS Professional Training all the way through Certification. Jamila is the creator of the powerful Flower Essences used in this program.

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From as long as she can remember, she was able to see and know things about people by being able to “read” their energy. An avid learner and self-proclaimed geek, she has been delving into Human Design for over ten years and uses this as the guidepost in all her work.

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